Goddamn ableist bastard!
Courtney (she/her/they)
Hello lovelies, I am a (trans)Woman who is still in the process of discovering herself!
I have been working up the courage to be who I am for so long, I am excited to be figuring things out.
Pre-HRT, pre-fashion-sense, and pre-confidence.
Any and all tips and advice from more experienced women are welcome!
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Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Technology@lemmy.world•How one woman’s Tesla was remotely controlled – and used to harass her – by an abusive ex-partnerEnglish
32·4 days agoIf you’re a licensed driver, you know how to drive. If people are being given licenses without properly making sure the licensee is both qualified and mentally capable to drive and know what responsibilities that entails, then we shouldn’t be letting them drive and that’s a failing on society.
At least where I’m from, unlicensed minors aren’t allowed to drive without a licensed adult present.
And if you don’t trust your unlicensed teenager to not steal your keys and go on a joyride, the I can’t help you because you need a professional family therapist to work through issues.
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Mildly Interesting@lemmy.world•China’s population, expressed in units of Canadas
7·4 days agoTaiwan is roughly 3/4 of a canada
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•I getting more and more enraged seeing self proclaimed leftists resorting to ghastly Gen AI to bastardise their rather humorous ideas.English
695·5 days agoAt least it isn’t AI.
I’ll take irritation fueled spelling error littered rants over a succinct, correctly parsed AI slop response any day of the week
Pig: I AM IN CHARGE HERE!
eagles attack
Wizard: Do you feel in charge?
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are some of the best communities here to post unhinged, smarmy or straight up deranged social media posts?
2·9 days agoThere’s a few shitposting communities
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Technology@lemmy.world•AI Didn't Steal the Mathematician's Work, Sam Altman DidEnglish
204·10 days ago“guns don’t kill people. people kill people.”
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Heh Heh Good Job Boys
46·11 days agoTo me it’s the fact they all look like children trying to feel like big boys in their dad’s too-large clothes (which is fitting (pun intended) since at least those medals are inherited, not for things they themselves have done)
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Technology@lemmy.world•Don’t Let Anyone Take Away Your Big Box of Cables - Jim Nielsen’s BlogEnglish
8·11 days agoI have used so many cords in my technomancer box over the years, and there are some from the 90s that still get used.
I kept all my old console cables, and wouldn’t you know it, I needed two for nostalgia purchases, one for a friend, and one that I used to fabricobble a Frankencord(s monster).
I’ll let someone throw it away over my dead body.
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•This Sentence Is Not A RuleEnglish
35·11 days agoYes but my point is that if it conveys meaning to the intended target, it’s irrelevant.
Plenty of sentences, out of context, have no real meaning. The example in OP is one that could have meaning in the right context, which would be understood by its recipient
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•This Sentence Is Not A RuleEnglish
119·11 days agoThe point of language is to convey meaning. Grammar is less important than what the speaker wants to tell other people.
If this sentence, in context of a larger conversation, has meaning to the people listening to it, then congratulations! Rejoice, for communication has been achieved! Whether it was grammatically correct or not is irrelevant, because the intended target understands.
Language changes over time. Nobody just decided to come up with modern English one day and it caught on, it’s a gross pot filled with words and grammar from many other languages (some more melted than others, so not really a melting pot), and mostly filtered from a language nobody speaks anymore.
So having what are essentially arbitrary rules that dictate how things must always be for that language is already pretty dumb to me.
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Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
People Twitter@sh.itjust.works•Just so you understand...
4·14 days agoBut… But… Number must go up!
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•A question about the series fringe
171·15 days agoYou’ll get a better, more accurate answer by asking random internet nerds, AND you aren’t contributing to the speed run of environmental destruction.
Fuck modern “Ai”
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Fuck AI@lemmy.world•Man Pretends to Hallucinate in Job Interview With an AI Bot, Causing It to Go Haywire
46·16 days agoI want to work.
I just want to work building and fixing bicycles.
Unfortunately, I can’t make enough money doing that in my area without being attached to a company. If I could work out of my garage, that’d be great. I already have all the tools I’d need.
It’s like hearing someone say “there were no strong female leads in movies before the Hunger Games”
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Is everybody just struggling financially right now?
13·18 days agoI have moved back in with parents, who are struggling to pay their own bills. It’s mutually beneficial, but goddamn does it make transitioning hard. I doubt they would kick me out since they’d lose the house when they can’t pay bills, but in the meantime I would need to find somewhere to put up a tent and hope I can store my stuff somewhere cheap.
Since my spouse got fired over a medical issue, and their health has since spiraled, we have been eating through our savings. “Luckily” I just started a second job today.
Sure would be great if you could survive on a single income as a family like people used to be able to do. We’d have to make billionaires extinct first(and even then it’d be a long road getting from here to there) and unless society does a 180, that’s not happening.
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Technology@lemmy.world•Sony Implements New Customer Harassment Policy Following Backlash Toward Its Plans to Stop Making Physical Game DiscsEnglish
16·18 days agoYes, and companies can be trusted to not abuse their unquestioned power over their users.
They certainly don’t have a track record of fucking over users!
Why are you defending a multi billion dollar company like they’re paying you?
Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Technology@lemmy.world•Sony Implements New Customer Harassment Policy Following Backlash Toward Its Plans to Stop Making Physical Game DiscsEnglish
6·18 days agoSo I guess the whole “we removed things from your console that you paid for because we lost a license” doesn’t count then.
If I buy a car from a dealership, and the dealership has my car towed after I’ve paid for it because Ford or whoever pulled a contract, you bet your ass I’m going to harass the dealership.

I wish my family would be this chill about it.
It’s gonna be an interesting day when they eventually figure it out.