I’m 7 years into a relationship like this. I love her, but it’s breaking us apart. If you love your SO, please don’t neglect your mental health. What is reassuring and cute to you can become a taxing chore with time until one person is more like a caretaker than a lover.
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pmk@piefed.cato
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•New to Lemmy. Can anyone explain it to me and give me some tips?English
18·8 days agoIf someone asks which linux distro they should install, just insist on your favourite distro no matter the use case.
also why “head”?
Because this year your [F4M] MILF Neighbor gives out blowjobs instead of candy [Neighbors to Lovers] [Slow Burn] [Trick or Treat] [Messy Head] [ASMR] [Wet Sounds] [Slimegirl]
I like Ken Thompson. He wanted to play a game on a computer that didn’t have an OS that supported it so he wrote Unix.
pmk@piefed.cato
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Yes, I use Debian stable. How'd you know?English
3·24 days agovmm used to only support openbsd as guest os iirc, I guess it has added linux support.
pmk@piefed.cato
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Yes, I use Debian stable. How'd you know?English
2·24 days agoWait, openbsd can run debian vms?
there really isn’t a lot of divergence
There’s plenty of divergence, for example we have everything from Debian to NixOS users, and heck even the odd BSD user. And they don’t even agree on which text editor is the best for programming, so there’s plenty to discuss.
That’s how I feel about Emil Cioran.
I interpreted the question less about kde vs gnome, and more about kde or gnome vs other desktops. Maybe OP intended the former now that I read it again. I used to have heavily personal setups of DWM or CWM back in the day, with lots of small scripts to cover some functionality, but now I just want the “default” because the OS itself stopped being my hobby. Nothing against KDE, I just found GNOME to be more polished out of the box and stayed.
I got tired of “customizing” everything and just wanted to get work done. GNOME is the default on many distros, so I learned the intended workflow instead of fighting it. Now I can just install a distro and be productive immediately instead of spending time tweaking things.
If I remember correctly, they used KenC to bootstrap the Go compiler.
Do you mean something like Holos, where each user is also their own server? “Holos is a unique Fediverse client where your device is your own ActivityPub server.”
Just out of curiosity, how legal is this? Do you need to hide in complicated ways?
Valid or not, we have three options: 1) Put up with the current situation. 2) Fix the problem. 3) Pay someone else to fix the problem.
I see. Would you say that the banner picture of this: https://www.openbsd.org/ is an example or is it just similar?
I will accept your speculation as absolute truth. The matter is decided in my mind.
My general advice at this point is, if you haven’t already, to document the setup for your future self. It quickly gets out of hand with the amount of passwords, credentials, certificates, firewall settings, docker containers left and right, configs, workarounds, custom shell scripts, ansible scripts, git repos, backup locations and passwords, etc. Right now everything is fresh in your mind, but 6 months from now you may need to restore from a backup or an OS upgrade goes wrong, and then you’ll appreciate being able to remember the details.
Oh, ok. Thanks. I still don’t really understand, is it supposed to be the “>” symbol or is the eye doing that literally?




I recognize everything you say and the tone of it, and I’m just immune to that angle. If you take a step back and look at it, it’s an appeal for more reassurance. I’m just saying that for your partners sake, and if you actually want the relationship to work, the best thing you can do is working on your confidence. If you don’t, every “But baby I do love you let me show you” will gradually become hollow words, and eventually filled with resentment. That’s not what you actually want, right?