• Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    19 days ago

    What I use to do, which worked well for me.

    IF date starts at 8:00pm
    THEN

    • groom, scrub, shampoo, condition, etc. at 3:00PM then wash and clean you car’s interiors (if applicable)
    • thoroughly shower rinse (no soap). Only use soap (unscented) to wash your genitals and butt again at 6:30-7:00
    • I sometimes used a mix of coconut oil with clove essential oil on my clavicles and side of my ribs if I wanted a very subtle scent at 'tongue-to-skin" distance.

    Stank, whether is due to lack of hygiene or overly perfumed soaps, shampoos, hair products, etc. is just unpleasant. I preferred for my partners to remember and desire my scent, not dirty stank, not some cologne, and not the soap/shampoo.

    EDIT: The placement of the essential oil or any othe scent is important because nobody likes the taste of perfumes, essential oils, etc.