transcription: dude from lunch: “im the type of guy that whenever a lesbian looks at me, she goes “and thats the reason im not heterosexual””. lesbian: “i say that about every guy i interact with, your not special”. dude from lunch: “you know what thats fair”.

  • kibiz0r@midwest.social
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    6 days ago

    To be fair, he only said “the type of guy”, which asserts nothing about the rarity of that type.

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      6 days ago

      I think butch is still around, but now there are also masc people who can look like butches but should not be referred to as butches, unless that is their wish.

      Edit: I say this as a masc person who doesnt identify as butch but could some days pass as one at first glance.

      • Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zip
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        6 days ago

        Butch is definitely still around, my best friend is butch 😅 there’s concern butch doesnt exist anymore??

        It has a specific meaning not everyone identifies with, but I very regularly meet folks for whom Butch is what captures a part of their identity, sexuality, and gender. And alternately, sometimes also meet people who identify as masc 🤷🏻‍♂️

      • Redditmodstouchgrass@lemmy.zipBanned from community
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        6 days ago

        Ah. When I tried to look it up I got a bunch of terminology that wasn’t very distinct, so I just defaulted to what I’d heard before.