One on each side if you can manage.
When I worked medsurg as a CNA while I was in school sometimes with real old dudes I had to throw their nutsack over their leg as they sat on the toilet to keep it from pinching or falling in the water. Boys, wear supportive undergarments while it still matters.
From a psych nurse, DO NOT directly tell him to stop doing the delusional / maladaptive thing. Do not give the thought pattern the chance to practice protecting itself. Just offer the better thing on it’s own in a way that doesn’t directly challenge the maladaptive behavior. If you challenge directly it will only get stronger. I don’t have good tips on specific activities because that’s gonna be so locality specific I just wanna share some tried and true wisdom on how to introduce when you do find something.
Hubs and I are ND asF and have all kinds of weird sex including nonmonogamy at one point. I’m still the husband in this meme most of the time, but sometimes he’s the husband in this meme. If you think you never miscommunicate, odds are you’re a REALLY bad communicator.
yeah when I do decide to stop wearing cheap shit I’m probably gonna do sulfur patinated silver. Unsettlingly pale with dark hair and other accents is kind of my signature look but it’s hard to create a contrast with a bright metal. And I want something that’s going to be relatively easy to reapply at home but that’s a little more durable than simple enamel. I can already tell which ones were coated properly vs which ones were just enameled, which is wild amount of variability in quality considering they were all like $2-3.
I’m just not sure where I’m going to get this amount of variety / character out of actual proper jewelry metals without going 100% custom and that’s just not within my means currently. I also have to get mostly split / resizable styles since my fingers are exeptionally skinny, all those split styles you see on the forefingers are brought down to like a 4 from a 6-8, and some of the other styles are split on the underside (which is less ideal since they pinch when I grasp things and I like the split to look intentional where possible)
I also have removable nail cover rings but one of the pinkies popped off the ring and I’m waiting for a friend to make me some custom acrylics anyway. would be super cool to have some solid metal ones someday but again, not feasible right now.
Keeps people from stealing yo girl.
Unironically my husband would love working at one. Food service is his preferred trade, but as an introvert if you took out the service part, he’d thrive.
I grew up redneck in a red area and most of the reason I still identify with the label is the realization that Mexicans, the Vietnamese, and pretty much every other culture also has rednecks (those are just the main ones I’ve seen on YouTube shorts). We’re inevitable.
Somewhere between Liverpool and London. Definitely not any northern or western of that.
He’s the dude version of Brittney male sexual abuse just looks a little different and isn’t recognized as readily or taken as seriously, which is saying something because abusing young female pop stars is super common and happens constantly and is also not taken super seriously.
I have patients all the time who go on and on about how this or that plastic or adhesive or plastic we have in supply smells bad or irritates their skin. I had raised itchy bumps in the exact shape of the EKG electrode pads for over a week after my ED visit for a panic attack with severe chest pain and shortness of breath and the main thing I regret about that visit is the bill.
If I’m putting EKG leads or a tegaderm on you you’ve got way bigger problems than a rash my dude. And if your problem actually is unserious or alternately terminal enough that it’s more comfortable for you to just suffer in the comfort of your own bed, then just do that. If your problem is benign enough that you can even be worried about a rash more than you are worried about dying painfully from whatever you’re there for, you’re probably lucky enough to have a problem you can handle in the comfort of your own home.
And I’m even talking about serious chronic and terminal disorders. Everybody dies. If you are able to make the decision that you value spending the time given to you on earth in comfort rather than fighting through medical treatments to maybe get more of it then I encourage you to actively choose comfort for yourself. Don’t spend what time you’re given on this earth waffling back and forth between trying to get invasive treatment vs trying to be comfortable and bitching at other people the whole way down trying to make them as miserable as you just because they literally cannot by the physical rules of the universe provide both to you at the same time.
And ffs get a palliative consult. It’s not hospice and you don’t need to be actively on the way out to get it. You can do it at any time. And they’ll make you way more comfortable than you’ll ever get from complaining to a random floor nurse about Band-Aids.
buboosenchan is one of my absolute favorite YouTube creators.
When I heard him talk about his relationship with Carl Sagan and how he was one of the very few people that were willing to invest time and energy in him as a black man in STEM at the time he made a little more sense to me. I feel like having to fight for it has probably made him a lil crispy around the edges.
He’s like the dude version of Brittney. Like they even publicly sexualized him too it just looked a little different because he’s male.
I work with a vulnerable population. In addition to every job doing piss testing my fingerprints and DNA get recorded and checked against unsolved assaults / murders. Nothing ever comes up but I always worry I’m gonna be like the last person that touched a vase before the dude that bashed somebody’s head in with it and the dude who did it isn’t in any databases and I’m gonna have to answer a bunch of intrusive questions.
I also love that book so you’re not special. Take that.
oooh that’s a thought. I thought it was gonna be more like what their poop / excretions smell like because maybe some of them smell like those things they don’t like but now I’m wondering if it’s the other way around?
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